The Resilience Coach For Men

When did it become a “shameful” thing to feel pain?

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When did it become a “shameful” thing to feel pain?
So much pain that you feel like you’re drowning in it.
My love, release that judgement of yourself right now.

Truth is… though pain, miracles and opportunities appear.
Allow yourself to see them.

Even in the depths of your loneliness, allow yourself to see the beauty, gifts, brilliance in yourself… as we see them in you.

And know, without a doubt, that there is so much love hurtling towards you.

Be present with that…

Your future, my love, is so much more amazing than you can even begin to imagine.

Love you 🔥❤🙏✨
Mandy xo

One of the greatest gifts I’ve been able to be a vessel for has been compassion.

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❤❤💫One of the greatest gifts I’ve been able to be a vessel for has been compassion. 💫❤❤

Compassion for people, even when others can’t see beyond their own dramas and think I’m nuts.
Compassion for animals, when others tell me I’m wasting my time.
Compassion for people close to me who are suffering with deep hurt, blocks, wounds and couldn’t allow themselves to experience self love / self compassion.

Truth is, there’s been times in my past, years ago, when I believed people when they told me it was a curse, naivety.

Until one day I woke the f–k up and owned it as an incredible miracle gift that flowed through me.
And every day for all these years since then, I’ve been reminded how awesome that decision was.
The impact it’s had.

Sitting watching this sunset reminded me of this. I took a photo to remember this moment. To treasure it.
Compassion… it’s beautiful. Don’t fool yourself into thinking otherwise.

Love YOU
Mandy xoxox

Liberation, body love, self love, self belief… Baby, LOVE YOU!…

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Liberation, body love, self love, self belief… Baby, LOVE YOU!…
😘🔥🌅👙❤🌴
And HOW THE HELL do I take decent full body selfies? LOL xo 😂🌊💫

LIBERATION X 10+ is what I’m going for… and more! I’m open to uplevelling everything in my life where I’ve been holding back. Nothing less.

One of the things that has definitely been intimidating for me is showing more “skin” in photos… I love my body, I love the shape it’s in, I love feeling amazing about it, I love how I feel about my body for the most part…

…And feel incredibly comfy with my body around people that genuinely love me for who I am, “get me”, support, fire me up, know me well and uplift me.

I was talking about this a few days back with a soul bestie of mine. Who said while I was clowning around in a bikini…

“you’ve got a banging sexy body, why don’t you show it more, it’s part of who you are, own it, beautiful”.

And it was a strange feeling actually accepting that compliment.

OK, I thought… this is an opportunity here for me to be super vulnerable and transparent with myself.

I laughed… thinking about the times I’ve tried to take selfies of my body and have deleted everyone of them.

Thinking about the times when people have admired my body and I’ve struggled receiving it.

I’ve owned being / looking athletic… but felt weird about “sexy”.

The times when I’ve wanted to show more skin, but didn’t…

“shit, maybe that’s too sexy for my age”… I’ve certainly copped a barrage of nasty comments over the years, mostly from women, when I’ve stepped up the sexy.

Worrying about the judgement of what people might say in general with me doing so…

Which is weird… because I love love love it when others do this, stand proud with their skin.

Then the selfie stuff… wrong angle, the selfie police LOL, or just looking crappy in photos.

Trying to take full body selfies (feels so different to taking head shots)… is frustrating for me.

So I’m “popping my own cherry” here…

I went through my healing / accelerated upevelling process that I do…

Thought “screw this!”… And screw it, right freaking now!
And stepped into the energy of fired up, sexy, liberated Mandy.
Owning my body in so many more different ways.

Of course… because I chose this… It’s done!

Remember this is all about what you choose… your energy… what you call in.

It changed the rest of my time away… the way I felt about my body and myself.
Very freaking cool!

Expect more pics…

LIBERATION BABY!

So I ask of you…

Where are you not stepping up…Where are you not liberating yourself.

Where are you not fully standing in your power, your body… and loving the hell out of yourself, beautiful?

Totally opening yourself up for the liberation and the opportunity for miracles from breaking through your “stuff”.

love you
Mandy xo ❤😘🔮🔥🙏👙🌀

LIVIE”… Mandy Gibbons Vibing with the amazing AJ Mihrzad!

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‘LIVIE”… Vibing with the amazing AJ Mihrzad! Being soul aligned, power naps, plant medicine, being your authentic self, surrendering, operating at higher frequencies, self love and more… xo Yay! So much awesomeness! Thankyou beautiful, AJ! xo ❤😘🔮🔥🙏✨

WANNA KNOW WHAT HURTS?… Not ALLOWING YOURSELF to ACCELERATE YOUR LIBERATION

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Beautiful, STOP!!…holding yourself back…
STOP…obsessing about your fears, versus your purpose…
STOP… being dragged back by insecurities versus…
…being pulled energetically towards everything your soul is calling you to do, to take action on.

It’s your God given right to live your purpose.
It’s safe to want the f–k “out” of your past…
It’s safe to shed it…
To be obsessed with accelerating into your future xo

You’re always going to be transitioning in life.
Be “OK” with that.

You can’t go wrong when you’re in soul alignment…
When you know what you’re calling in… “it’s done”.

Make the decision to liberate yourself…
To unleash…
Love on yourself, and your purpose, so hard, so beautifully, so radically… the world can feel it.

There’s no turning back now, my love…

You’re here!

Leap…

I’ll catch you.

Now take my hand… xo

Sigh… it’s yours xo

If allowing yourself, no rules, no limits, to fully throw yourself into Liberation Mindset Acceleration x 10…

The energy of that, the feel of that, rocks your world… You know it, baby!

Then reach out to me, beautiful…

love you
Mandy xo

I just wanted people to “get me”, love me… And for me to love me too xo

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A couple of days ago…
I was looking out the window of my office… At the ocean, the sunset…
Feeling grateful.
After an amazing day of rocking it with my 1;1 clients.
I was looking back at how far I’d come.

There’s times when this happens, when I feel that energy of back then…
I just want to step in there… reach in…
And hug the hell out of  the old “me”…
And let myself know that I was going to blow my own mind away in the years ahead…
With the impact and ways that I was going to step up.

To reassure myself to have faith in that…
To let go of comparison.
To let go of feeling broken spirited
To let go of that terror of feeling like no one “gets” me.

No one understands me.
No one syncs with my vibe.
That I needed to let go of scrolling through social media, magazines.. looking at everyone else and feeling like I’ll never be good enough…
I’ll never be as amazing as them.

I wanted to be…
And secretly hoped I could be…
But what they were doing, what they have…
Seemed so far away.
And scary.

The pain I had inside me…
The fear of judgement
The fear of failure
The feeling of being stuck in a rollercoaster of small successes, then nothing, then back again.

Even though I was talented, amazing, freaking awesome at what I did…
And getting my clients incredible results.
I didn’t see “me” for what “I” truly was.
I’d kicked ass with sales, promotions etc here n there
– I’d put it down to being lucky, just a fluke.
Then would go back to thoughts of scarcity… lack of self worth.

Here’s the thing…

I JUST WANTED PEOPLE TO “GET” ME, TO “LOVE” ME…
To feel the love I had for them
To feel the depth of caring and passion I had for transforming people.
The dedication and soul ache I had to bring them all the success and awesomeness in the world.

I didn’t want to be a “replica” of anyone else.
I simply wanted to be me… But I was scared of “me”…
And what truly owning me would mean.

Thinking back over that time…

And then now, sitting here…

So proud of where I am now. So incredibly grateful.

I thought to myself…

With all the self-comparison going on… let’s face it, it’s like an epidemic at the moment.

People usually only seeing the “amazing” side of people’s journey’s…

Or seeing someone they follow once they’ve reached a certain amount of success or money.

But what about what it takes – y’know those in between stages…

Where people uplevel themselves, what they do to get to that “place” internally…

Where they let go of judgement and comparison that’s controlling their business and lives.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, beautiful…

There’s room for everyone to impact the world, to elevate others.

You can’t tell me that you’re not important enough, that your message isn’t important enough…

That your purpose and legacy isn’t important enough… to not be put out there.

Love you
Lead with Love
Mandy xo

Audio Self-Love Letter “Love Letter to Yourself”

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MY GIFT TO YOU: LOVE LETTER FROM YOU… TO YOU! ❤😘💞✨🔥🙏

Love letter from YOU… to YOU. xo

TRANSCRIPT FOR THE AUDIO… 🎬❤✨

Hi beautiful… this is you reaching out to you 18 months from now. Your future higher self.

I’m here standing in the power of abundance, holding myself as powerful… to tell you that’s it’s safe to experience your goals, your vision.

I’m standing in the power of the things and person that you’re so afraid to step up for… and into.

I can see the fear, the pain in your eyes.

That fear of feeling isolated, of feeling alone.

I’ve got a message from YOU, to YOU.

Why are you afraid of becoming me?

Why are you turning your back on me… When I’m within reach. And living, breathing everything that you keep telling yourself you want.

I’m just a decision away, a choice away, beautiful.

YOU, the soul filled, lead with love, change maker… Who’s passionate about your legacy, about giving back… About your transformation and others.

I can tell you, there are so many people that adore you, that love you, that appreciate you…

That see you for the amazing powerful leader that you are

That see you for the amazing gifts that you take for granted

That see you for the visionary that you’ve been holding back from allowing to soar and take flight.

I’m here to hug you…

I’m placing my arms around you…

It’s time to let go… Deep breathe… I’m wiping away the tears of relief from your eyes and cheeks.

I’ve heard you calling for me… I’m here.

It’s ok, beautiful.. I’ve got you.

We both know that “being here” is euphoric. More beautiful than what we both thought it could ever possibly be.

I want to embrace you, laugh with you, comfort you…

I want you to feel the vibe that I’m feeling now… The energy of that… And allow that to surge through you.

To empower you… To ignite change, that incredible fire within you.

The “WHY” of how I got here… What I believed about “us” to get here… It’s here, right now, beautiful.

It’s so clear.

Take my hand, beautiful… And step into me.

I love you so much… Your future self.

Mandy xo
“Lead with Love” xo ❤😘🙏🔥