I want to challenge you today to truly ask yourself… Because this is something I’ve been thinking deeply about… especially when it comes to Leading with Love.
And that’s why should anyone follow you? And I emphasise the “why”.
This isn’t about judgement…
This is about helping you get innate CLARITY on the amazing leader that you know you are.
This is about rocking the POWERFUL LEADER you know you are…
…And being TRUE to who you are.
I’m sure you’ve experienced (we all have), seen or invested in leadership that came from a place of manipulation (which often comes from a place of fear and / or cultivating fear in others etc).
And does this work?…
Yes it does… to a certain extent…
But it also breeds fear and lack of trust and stress for yourself and those around you.
So you have a choice…
Step or move away from that, change that… or continue to accelerate that.
Truth is, you can have a heck of a lot more fun – and it’s so freaking rewarding – LEADING with “YOUR SOUL’S “WHY”… inspiring people to follow you, to want to be a part of your mission, your movement…
Whether that be a local movement, within those people that are directly around you… or includes impacting the world on a larger or different scale.
So….
What if you quit worrying about competitors and trying to figure out their stuff, their special secrets and stressing about what they do…
And just rocked the hell out of your own God given gifts, talents, miracles and set your own movement on fire, with a passion that comes from deep inside you.
True leadership isn’t just about all the shiny shit…
(whatever that may be in your eyes)…
We’ve all been in that place where we’ve been confused, right?
Not able to make decisions about anything in our businesses and lives, feeling like we’re copping it from all sides whether it be advertising, social media posts, our own doubts and negative self-beliefs, peer pressure, people that don’t support us.
People experience this every single day. It’s like “blah, blah, blah, blah… arggghhhh enough!”… it’s doing their heads in!
Understand this…
PEOPLE ARE LOOKING TO BE CALLED AND INSPIRED…
Yes!
They want to be part of something that’s bigger than themselves.
That means something so deep within them… that it stirs their heart and souls.
That they belong…
They they’re appreciated…
That they’re cared for…
That they’re loved.
So what’s your “why”…
What is it that’s so much bigger than you, your belief, that change, that connection, that feeling, that emotion, that cause…
…That deep from your soul, that heart break you feel if you weren’t able to create this movement, change, impact?
It’s easy to say “I just wanna be a leader and makes lots of money and be famous”… That’s just stuff.
When I’m talking to people, I love having really deep conversations about their “why”…
Sure, what they do for a living and how they do it is great, but it’s all surface stuff, right?
Imagine if every leader, every business, every company, every conversation, every connection came from a place of “why”.
Imagine if everybody and everything in your business or company, as a leader… was living proof, your actions, their actions of what you believe, of how you hold your business and company accountable.
Because what you stand for, what you believe, your why… your energy that you bring… your values, your own gifts and talents, how you do those and the why behind those… Your purpose…
That’s what’s going to help you stand out as a leader.
People that “get your vibe”, that “feel” your vibe, it makes it easy for them to follow you… Want to be around you.
Because you inspire them…
You don’t need to manipulate them.
Because they’re there by your side.
You’re leading with love, leading with your why.
So let me ask you again…
As a leader… Why should people follow you?
What’s your “why”, beautiful? Xo
Love you
Mandy xo
“Lead with Love”